'Blurgendered' is my new term for when asked what my gender is and I'll abbreviate it “blurg.” I've named it after the band, Blur, not because I'm into them but because their song, Boys And Girls, pretty much nails how I feel about my gender.
girl who’s a boy
who like boys to be girls
who does boys like they’re girls
who does girls like they’re boys
Or, you know, something like that. And, anyway, I’m non-binary and fluid, blurring the lines one way, then another—at least in how I feel about my gender.
Also, that’s how I feel when asked the gender question anyway…”blurg.”
For more about my quest to identify my gender, you can read this wall of text here.